Whatever Happened to the Magic of the Mailbox?

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When I was a little girl, I loved going to the mailbox.

There was something almost magical about opening that little metal door. Maybe there would be a birthday card from my grandmother with a crisp $10 bill tucked inside. Maybe a handwritten letter from a friend or an invitation. Something unexpected.

Checking the mail was part of the rhythm of the day. As we pulled into the driveway, we would wander over to the mailbox with a quiet sense of anticipation, wondering what surprise might be waiting inside. Even on a difficult day, finding a thoughtful note or an unexpected check could brighten your mood. The mailbox used to feel like a fun possibility.

But if I'm honest, now I dread it because most days it's overflowing with advertisements, political flyers, catalogs I never requested, credit card offers, and bills. It feels more like a collection of things demanding my attention than things bringing me joy. I feel that is kind of sad. Somewhere along the way, we lost a little bit of the mailbox magic.

As I thought about this recently, an idea came to me that I haven't acted on yet, but I think I will. Something that may bring back the fun for me and for those on the receiving end. 

I want to write each of my children a handwritten letter every month.

Not because there's anything urgent to share but because it may bring the fun back. I will keep it simple because one day, years from now, they'll have a collection of letters filled with my thoughts, stories, encouragement, and love about what was happening in my life that I may not have told them in our family text thread. They'll be able to hold them in their hands, reread them, and maybe even pass them down someday. There is something special about a handwritten letter. They take time, intention, and presence- almost like a meditation while you are writing it. Oh ya, and it will be handwritten in good old cursive! 

I personally love it when I can see the person's handwriting. You know they sat down, thought about you, and chose their words carefully. In a world filled with texts, emails, and instant messages that disappear with the swipe of a finger, a letter feels almost sacred.

It becomes something you keep and unfold years later and remember exactly how it felt to receive it.

Perhaps we've lost some of that in our rush to communicate faster. Writing a handwritten note can become another way to pause and bring joy to someone else because some gifts aren't measured by what's inside the envelope, but by the thoughtfulness of the person who sent it.

This week, I'm reminding myself that creating joy doesn't always require something big. Sometimes it's as simple as buying a card, writing a note, or sending a letter to someone who would never expect it.

Who knows? Maybe this is the week to remind someone they matter, and we can make the mailbox magical again.

With heart,